To Be Dominated

Even if you're with a big-mouthed, bigger-balls-than-yours sort of woman who puts her independence before any other aspect in her life, trust us, she still wants you to take charge in the bedroom. At least sometimes anyway. Unfortunately, many men are a bit afraid to do so for fear of coming across as--for lack of a better word--'rapey.' 

The trick here is to start slow. Don't pull out the whips and chains before you've tried a simple playing around with 'looser' restraints. It's never a good idea to bark orders at her or call her a 'slut' right from the start. The transition might be a little too drastic to cope with and you don't want to risk putting her off. Quick tip: Be commanding but sensitive to her responses. The balance will have her begging for more.