Be Aggressive

Save this one for last because it actually is bordering on s & m. If and only if, everything else on this list has worked well in your favor, feel free to venture into this slightly darker world of sexual fantasy. Surprisingly, many women we've encountered have this one right up on their list of secret bedroom desires.

So…let the mild asphyxiation, hair pulling, tying up and skin scraping begin. Quick tip: There's no hard and fast rule here--you don't necessarily have to be the aggressor on every occasion and also, pick her up and throw her around a bit. There's nothing she'll love more than that.