Dirty Talk

This is a very grey area and once again, if you jump the gun, you could find yourself out of a great session between the sheets, as well as a girlfriend! But let's not make any bones about it--women love dirty talk. And men almost never give it to them. You become the first in her life to provide her with this secret sensual desire and chances are, she's never going to let you go! 

The reason is simple. Women are imaginative, vocal creatures. And they don't want to hear your flowery sweet nothings whispered into their ears--many want you to be downright twisted. Be very basic about it, ask her if she likes what you're doing, what her fantasies are etc. and gauge her responses before you march on like a good soldier. Heavier, quicker breathing are sure fire signs that she wants more but if she turns away from you or stiffens up a bit, stop right there. Quick tip: This one really could go either way, so tread carefully!