To Dominate

Yes, we know we said they want you to take charge but haven't you learned anything about women--they want it all! Not that there's anything wrong with changing things up in the bedroom eery once in a while and adding in some new heat. We already know that a surprising majority of men seriously dig 'the cowgirl' or 'girl on top' position and this is the best way to make her feel as though she's in control of what's going on. 

Let her be in charge and more importantly, make her feel as though she's in charge. Be responsive too, let her know that what she's doing is really working for you, dig your fingers into her back let her have her way with you. Win-win situation for both parties involved? We certainly think so. Quick tip: Once she's had a fair amount of time taking the reigns, switch it up to dominate her without warning. The sudden transition will leave her hot and heavy for you.