Identification

This is the first and foremost step of your mission to make your partner green with envy and it's vital that you take care of this step before you proceed. Identify--and we do mean ponder over it for a good amount of time so that you're certain--why you want to do this in the first place.

Is it because you've been feeling neglected, rejected or even perhaps a little envious of them? It's important to identify this because it's required for our next step; and that next step is the backbone of it all.