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								<title>How To: Get and Care For a Tattoo </title>
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									<pubDate>2011-05-17 07:00:00</pubDate>
									<dc:creator>Mandovi Menon</dc:creator>
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<p>Men have been getting designs inked into their skin since time immemorial. In prison, tattoos denote toughness, while sailors use them to size each other up. The Maoris consider face tattoos the ultimate badge of honor, while gang members use them to denote fallen comrades.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">You probably just want one because it looks cool. You're right, but there's plenty that can go wrong. Here's what you need to know before you get your first tattoo.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>DON&rsquo;T GO HIGH--OR WISH YOUR TATTOO GOOD-BYE</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Possibly one of the most common mistakes people make while getting a tattoo is to be absolutely shit-faced or otherwise impaired when making the decision to get one. You may be tempted to hit to bottle to dull the pain, but consider the fact that you may just end up with a ridiculous design. So it's simple: go sober, or go home.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>HYGIENE, BECAUSE IT&rsquo;S CLEAN!</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Abhinandan Basu, freelance tattoo artist, says that if the artist does not even bother to clean out the area and swab it dry with spirit, the&nbsp; chances of developing rashes, boils etc. increase. However, that's hardly the worst outcome possible. An unsanitary parlor that does not properly sterilize its equipment can risk passing on HIV or hepatitis to its customers. So do your research and make sure that the parlor and artist you choose are above board.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>PLAN THE DESIGN--IT&rsquo;S WORTH YOUR TIME<br />&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p class="p2"><strong></strong></p>
<p class="p1">&ldquo;Your tattoo design needs to relate to who you are as a person. No one else should play a factor in a decision as important as this. People need to understand the gravity of the words &lsquo;for life&rsquo;,&rdquo; states Nick, of Nick&rsquo;s tattoo studio. Think about it and don&rsquo;t leave the basic outline of what you want up to anyone but yourself. Of course, once you&rsquo;ve narrowed it down to one concept, spend as much time developing the idea with your tattoo artist. The more involved you are in your own project the better. After all, your body is the canvas for this work of art.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>TEST YOUR SKIN &ndash; FOR THE WIN</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">It&rsquo;s possible to get special tattoo paper that can temporarily print your idea of choice onto your skin. Think of it as a test drive. After all, if you can't put up with the design for a few days, how are you going to handle it for life?</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>LOOK WITHIN<br />&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p class="p2"><strong></strong></p>
<p class="p1">A tattoo is a commitment. As you'll see below, care is important, and things can go seriously pear shaped if you're not diligent about following instructions. You'll also need to consider the ramifications--is the design something that will age well? Some companies have a no-visible-tattoo policy, so make sure you're getting it in a place that can be covered up if need be. Also consider the fact that what you're doing to your body is permanent--laser removal is expensive and extremely painful. Once you're sure, pull the trigger and embrace the ink!</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Here's a montage of some brilliant tattoo designs for you to draw inspiration from:</p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>CARING FOR YOUR INK<br />&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p class="p2"><strong></strong></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s1">Now that you're all inked up, it's time to make sure that the wound heals properly. </span>Here's the definitive guide to tattoo care from Abhinandan Basu, freelance tattoo artist extraordinaire.</p>
<p class="p4">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">-The reason your tattoo artist wrapped up your fresh wound is so that airborne bacteria and dust particles stay as far away as possible. Keep this bandage intact, because failing to do so will mean a nasty infection.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">-You're going to have to keep your tattoo away from the sun for at least 2 weeks after you get it. We know you're eager to show it off at the beach, but hold your horses.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">-Most tattoo artists will advise you to avoid soaking your fresh tattoo in water for at least a week. For best results, Abhinandan suggests you wait a month; showering, however, is okay.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">-Even though you need to avoid contact with water, you do need to moisturize the spot of the tattoo with vaseline or other oil-based creams.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">-Excessive scabbing indicates done tattoo, but a certain amount of scabbing is to be expected. Avoid picking at or scratching the scab; instead, apply a warm compress to relieve the itching.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">All this may seem like a lot of work, but it's advice compiled over years of experience--all designed to keep the ink fresh looking and reduce the risk of infection to a bare minimum. Follow these rules, and you really can't go wrong with your tattoo experience.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p4">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">If you've always wondered what the actual process is like, here's a close up look--from start to finish:&nbsp;</p>
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								<title>How To: Get Your Girlfriend to Watch Cricket </title>
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									<pubDate>2011-05-16 07:00:40</pubDate>
									<dc:creator>Mandovi Menon</dc:creator>
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<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">So you&rsquo;re on the edge of your seat, nails in your mouth, fingers and toes crossed and what not. We need 10 runs from 4 balls against Pakistan and there&rsquo;s pin-drop silence all over the city and probably the nation. Just then you hear a shrill &ldquo; Honey, can we go get something to eat now?!&rdquo; Akhtar bowls, Yuvraj misses and we lose a ball. Is it possible that even the cricketers got distracted by that terribly timed request from your partner?&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">We can hear the collective nodding. And a solution is probably not as far off as you think. If only you could get her to sit still and maybe just maybe, even get her to enjoy the cricket. Well, at least you can try but be ready for a fight. She&rsquo;s not going down that easy!</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Here&rsquo;re our top 5 methods to get your woman interested in the sport that has 3 billion fans, most of which are probably not women.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>GOSSIP-MONGERING</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">It is common knowledge that nothing fixates women more than a juicy bit of gossip. Next time you find her fidgeting with her nails or getting restless watching Shane Warne ready himself for the next ball try a simple &ldquo; Darling did you know that Shane Warne and Liz Hurley had an affair?&rdquo; or &ldquo;you won&rsquo;t believe who Zaheer is dating now!&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">This should spark some interest in the game and hopefully she&rsquo;ll focus on trying to spot the women you mentioned in the stands, earning you some peaceful respite.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">A word of caution: conversations have a way of veering entirely off topic with women. Make sure it doesn&rsquo;t go into a &ldquo;Would you ever cheat on me?&rdquo; played off Shane Warne&rsquo;s infidelity!</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>COMPROMISE WITH COMPARISONS</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">If you&rsquo;re lucky enough, she&rsquo;s agreed to sit down with you and watch the game, maybe even try to understand it a bit more. Keep things interesting. If she hasn&rsquo;t quite figured out a no ball yet compare it to something she does understand. Like fashion or exercise or even a sport she&rsquo;s actually interested in!</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>BARGAINED BRIBES</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">When in doubt, strike a deal. They say a relationship is all about compromise so what are you waiting for? Promise her a romantic evening in that wonderful new restaurant if she watches the entire match with you. Or at the very least, gives you moral support when you and your team most need it. Don&rsquo;t forget to compliment her by telling her how lucky she is for your team.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>THE NAKED APPEAL</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">When all else fails write to the BCCI. Or even the cricketers themselves. Make an appeal. Ask them to follow the footballers&rsquo; guide to sexy and take off their shirts any chance they can! Sure, it won&rsquo;t really work for you but it&rsquo;ll have your woman glued to the television like never before. Why else do you think women watch football anyway?!</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>CUTE CHARTS</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Keep the interest flowing with conversation that is bound to interest her. Ask her to rate cricketers on their level of sex appeal, cuteness etc. Ask her to make a list and then discuss it with her during drinks and innings break.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">That&rsquo;s it, good soldier--you&rsquo;re on your own from now on. Just do your research, follow our advice, and cricket-watching with your significant other should be a far more enjoyable experience from now on.&nbsp;</p>
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								<title>5 Books That Will Sharpen Your Business Sense </title>
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									<pubDate>2011-05-15 09:00:29</pubDate>
									<dc:creator>Mandovi Menon</dc:creator>
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Here are 5 books that are guaranteed to sharpen your business sense. If you havent read at least 3 of these can you even call yourself a businessman?]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[]]></content:encoded>
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								<title>5 Date Ideas To Blow Her Mind </title>
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									<pubDate>2011-05-14 08:15:30</pubDate>
									<dc:creator>Harsh Kalan</dc:creator>
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								<title>How To: Appreciate Cognac </title>
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									<pubDate>2011-05-12 12:11:55</pubDate>
									<dc:creator>Varun Bubber</dc:creator>
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<p class="p1">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Cognac is one of those drinks that can be quite intimidating. That's because its expensive, French, and is usually placed at the very top of the bottle displays at bars. There's a good reason for that--it really is the king of all liquors. Here's all you need to know on how to appreciate cognac.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>HOW TO APPRECIATE COGNAC: GET THE RIGHT HOOCH</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">There's no real way to do this on the cheap. There are basically three grades of cognac: VS, or Very Special, is essentially high-end brandy, and a bottle of this retails for about Rs. 1300. VSOP, or Very Special Old Pale, is the first grade of cognac, and is particularly recommended if you've never tried cognac before. This will run you about Rs. 1800. XO, or Extra Old, is the really good stuff, and costs about Rs. 5000.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>HOW TO APPRECIATE COGNAC:&nbsp;DON'T BENCH THE FRENCH</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">For something to be officially certified as cognac, it needs to be from the Champagne region of France. Only these producers are allowed to call their stuff "fine Champagne cognac," and that's what you should be drinking. Some of the more popular brands are:</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">-Remy Martin</p>
<p class="p1">-Hennessey</p>
<p class="p1">-Martell</p>
<p class="p1">-Courvoisier</p>
<p class="p1">-Camus</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>HOW TO APPRECIATE COGNAC:&nbsp;EQUIP YOURSELF</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">You can experiment with mixing later, but your first taste of cognac should be neat. For this, you'll need a snifter (pictured above). Pour a measure of VSOP or XO in, swirl it around and check out the golden-brown colours. Let your palm warm the glass, as this will release a bouquet of aromas for you to savor. Then drink up.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">It's too hot in India to drink the stuff neat, so you can then dilute it with water or ice. Cola is also a common mixer, but only for VSOP--the XO is too good to mess with.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>HOW TO APPRECIATE COGNAC:&nbsp;MIX IT UP</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">There are a bunch of cognac cocktails out there you can fool around with. The most popular of these is a sidecar.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Sidecar: .75 ounces Cointreau + .75 ounces lemon juice + 1.5 ounces of cognac. Shake well with ice and serve in a cocktail glass.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">There are many other variants out there, so get a bottle and experiment away.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>HOW TO APPRECIATE COGNAC:&nbsp;KNOW YOUR STUFF</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Cognac has a long and storied reputation. Now that you're a true cognac connoisseur, you'll appreciate the fact that the fiery liquid makes you feel extremely warm. As a result, it's consumed by those in cold climates, and is even the stuff that the St Bernard rescue dogs carry around their necks in the alps to warm up stranded climbers and explorers.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Cognac is also good for a sore throat. Mixed with honey and warm water, it's a great elixir for a hoarse voice or throat itch.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Cognac consumption was limited to the upper classes, until American rappers embraced it as their drink of choice. Videos like the one below served as extremely effective advertising, and sales soared. It's also the drink of choice for dictators--Kim Jong Il of North Korea reportedly buys the stuff by the crate.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">So turn up the volume, break out that cognac, and taste the good life:</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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<p class="p1">For more on the history of cognac and the process by which it's made, click <a href="http://guylife.com/news-vices/upgrade-to-cognac/4441" target="_self">here</a></p>
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								<title>How To: Be A Crotch Rocket Rider </title>
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									<pubDate>2011-05-10 17:15:53</pubDate>
									<dc:creator>Varun Bubber</dc:creator>
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<p class="p1">You've all seen them; late at night, you hear the roar in the distance, followed by a symphony of tyre squeals as pedestrians and other traffic compensate for their boneheadedness. Four, five, no, six young wannabes on bikes zip past, living some sort of deranged Hell's Angels fantasy.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">You've just seen a pack of crotch-rocket riding morons. How did they get there, you ask? Well, it started off innocently enough. They saw a Dhoni motorcycle ad on TV or heard about John Abraham's recent Hayabusa purchase, bought a bike, and it was all downhill from there.&nbsp;Get ready to piss off a lot of people as we get you in on all you need to know to be a crotch rocket rider.</p>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>THE BASICS&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p class="p1">You need a bike, of course. Not just any bike. And definitely not a reasonably-powered, well-designed get-me-from-A-to-B bike. You need the loudest, most overpowered piece of engineering there is. And the blingier the better. The dream for any crotch rocket rider is a Suzuki Hayabusa or a Kawasaki Ninja. But those require serious cash, so they're likely to settle for the next best thing.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>TRICK IT OUT</strong></p>
<p class="p1">Silencers are evil, and are meant to be ripped out and cast away. Anything that makes your bike louder is better. Ditto for anything that draws more attention to it--decals, LEDs, the mind boggles at the possibilities. If it gives you a headache, you want it on there.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>STYLE UPGRADE</strong></p>
<p class="p1">Now that your bike is sorted, you need to focus on yourself. A helmet and motorcycle jacket are the norm, but the design is where you get to really express yourself. A skull lets you know the world you mean business, while a naked woman helps compensate for the lack thereof in your life. A visit to the barbershop is also on the cards, if only to get the latest Dhoni/Abraham haircut. Some piercings will help enhance your stature as a tough guy, and tattoos will show your crew that you're the real deal.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>FIND A PACK</strong></p>
<p class="p1">No true crotch-rocket rider ever rides alone. You'll have to find a bunch of like-minded fellows. Remember, a big part of the lifestyle is hanging out and comparing sizes. Of bikes and such. Each pack has a leader, who's usually a goon of some short. If he's flunked out of college, bonus points.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>RIDE STRONG AND LOUD</strong></p>
<p class="p1">Now that you're ready, it's time to announce your arrival. Ride past hospitals, nursing homes and residential neighborhoods without a care--you're above the law, aren't you? Harassing single women is part of the initiation process, and every family you leave un-terrorized is a missed opportunity. Come on, you guys are the kings of the road--it's time to lay claim to the kingdom!</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Seriously though, crotch-rocket riders are the bane of our existence, and we'd love for a pack to run right into a likeminded cop or two and get a taste of some lathi justice. If a friend displays any of the above signs, run--because he's about to turn into a crotch rocket rider!</p>
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								<title>Is &amp;quot;Just Go With It&amp;quot; The Worst Film of 2011? </title>
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									<pubDate>2011-05-10 16:37:23</pubDate>
									<dc:creator>Mandovi Menon</dc:creator>
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<p>Well, here's an excuse to get out of viewing yet another 'Rom-com' with the wife/girlfriend, if ever there was one. When she asks you why you won't let her rent the 'Just Go With it'&nbsp; DVD, just send her a link to this post. And if she doesn't relent, I feel for you, I really do. What's a guy to do? Get drunk. Really drunk.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Yup, the movie's that bad. It's not that it's the worst movie of all time--it's just that with the cast it has, and the budget it had access to, you'd expect much, much better. You would think the combination of Adam Sandler (since he actually is quite the comedian) and Jennifer Aniston (since she has played this character enough times for her to be called seriously boring) peppered with cameos from Nicole Kidman and Minka Kelly would be unbeatable in the land of lovable comic capers. Think again.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">I'm not sure what's worse--Aniston's seen-it-a-hundred-times-before role, or the plot, which is ludicrous, and even that's putting it kindly. The set up is trite--Sandler is a successful plastic surgeon who has to pretend that Aniston is his wife so that&hellip;you know what, I can't even be bothered to tell you what the plot is. Yup, the execution is that horrible.&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">From the usual terribly stereotypical jokes (read: racial, sexual and penis humor) that aren't even funny, the film is rife with a crudeness that is unique only to bad direction and worse writing.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Don't believe us? See what this selection of heavyweight critics had to say about the film:</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">"An early contender for worst movie of the year. If they were showing this on an airplane, I'd ask for a parachute." - <strong>Richard Roeper</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">"Sandler should know better." - <strong>Stephen Whitty</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">""The experience of sitting through Just Go With It, Adam Sandler's umpteenth comedy directed by good buddy Dennis Dugan, is akin to watching a bad sit-com that never ends." - <strong>James Bernadinelli</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">"Sandler has mellowed into an appealing garlicky, old-school mensch, and Aniston, as a self-sacrificingly practical woman in a race against time, is a genre unto herself." -<strong> Richard Brody</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">"Danny and co.'s elaborate ruse, and the movie's impersonation of a comedy, continues with bad fake accents (Cockney, German), more schtick and a dash of homophobia. But there's still room for sexism!"- <strong>Brian Gibson</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Our concluding advice? Think of yourself as an activist for the revival of decent cinema. If you actually contribute to the earnings of this movie, you'd be encouraging a whole spate of even worse cinema. So please - Just don't go with it!</p>
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								<title>Fine Dining: What Not To Do at a Fancy Restaurant </title>
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									<pubDate>2011-05-09 19:10:26</pubDate>
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<p>We're always scouring the web to bring you the best articles and information out there for guys. This piece on the <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com">Huffington Post</a>&nbsp;caught our eye because knowing what not to do when eating at a fancy restaurant is applicable to the Indian fine dining scene as well.<br /><br />Dining out is getting fancier and pricier, and there's no reason you can't expect the best when you're splurging on a meal. Knowing what to and what not to do when eating at a fancy restaurant will improve your general dining out experience as well.</p>
<p><strong><strong>-Don't accept a table you don't like</strong></strong><strong><br /></strong><strong>&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p><strong>-Food is getting more and more complcated, so don't be afraid to ask questions<br />&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p><strong>-Don't salt your food before tasting it<br />&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p><strong>-Rather than ask the chef to leave off an ingredient because you don't like it or are allergic, order something else instead<br />&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p><strong>-Don't stay mum when something's wrong<br />&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p>For more on why you shouldn't do the above, and more tips, <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/adam-roberts/restaurant-mistakes_b_854601.html">read more here.</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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								<title>Reclaim Your Manhood </title>
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									<pubDate>2011-05-09 07:20:17</pubDate>
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<p>Growing up in a generation that idolized Dharmendra, Amitabh Bachchan, Sanjay Dutt and Sunny Deol, worshipping physical strength comes naturally to us. As kids we fantasized about becoming S-T-R-O-N-G! This childhood dream instilled in us a macho desire to be the protectors of our tribe.</p>
<p class="p2"><strong>&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p class="p1"><strong>What they told us</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">But later in our lives, we were told that brawn is no match for the brain, and we were preached the famous &lsquo;pen is mightier than the sword&rsquo; adage. We were brainwashed into believing that we must be sensitive, and that being sensitive and manly were not compatible. You know what? That is complete BS! Men can have feelings and can still be manly.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">When someone says something negative about you, you can and should defend yourself instead of crying about it alone at night. Instead, we are taught to be &ldquo;politically correct&rdquo; all the time, when we could simply get rid of a lot of problems in our lives by speaking our minds and letting the other person know that we are not pushovers.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>Ladies&rsquo; man</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Every straight, red-blooded male wants a hot female/s in his life. Unfortunately, today many men try to impress women by trying to look good and by dressing well; in other words, by becoming metrosexuals.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">I have nothing against metrosexuals. But, if you really want to impress a woman then have the guts to ask her out, instead of trying to dress up and hope that she will come running after you. Women still love men with powerful personalities, who can ask them out, rather than someone who spends hours trying to pick the right.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>Muscle talk</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Moving onto the fitness world, as an instructor I hate men who are the typical &ldquo;I don&rsquo;t do weights, I only do cardio&rdquo; crowd! It&rsquo;s hard for me to hide my disgust, and very often I don&rsquo;t. Especially, when I see men who are into aerobics and dancing, and avoid strength training because it&rsquo;s &ldquo;too barbaric&rdquo; and &ldquo;primitive&rdquo;.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">I am not implying that men should be selfish, rude and uncaring. Yes, men are supposed to care for their family and friends, but they should also not be wimps and definitely should not be vulnerable to insults.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>Getting testy</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Testosterone is the hormone that is known to make us manly and bring about an urge to dominate and be the best that we can. The benefits of having high testosterone levels are:</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1">Better sexual health</li>
<li class="li1">Reduced chances of having a heart attack</li>
<li class="li1">Better bone health</li>
<li class="li1">Greater stamina and strength</li>
<li class="li1">Better mood</li>
</ul>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">It helps in being more productive, and competitive. Compared to that a guy with low testosterone will often be a pushover with many health complications like being fat, weak, having poor sexual health, fatigued, depressed, etc. So what do you want to be?</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">It is clear that being manly and taking charge of your life equals great health. Hence, your blood work is going to be great, and so is your mood. And more success you get in life the better it gets, as your T levels also rise.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">To improve your manliness and overall health, keep these points in mind &ndash;</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>Living and psychologically</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1">Take charge of your life and the responsibilities that come with it.</li>
<li class="li1">Don&rsquo;t become a pushover. Often times standing up to a challenge brings about a lot of pleasant changes rather than being a doormat.</li>
<li class="li1">Be competitive and goal oriented in your life. You don&rsquo;t necessarily have to compete with someone else; you can often be your own biggest competition.</li>
<li class="li1">Have (safe) sex more often.</li>
<li class="li1">Reduce stress, and get rid of the unnecessary junk in your life. Try meditation.</li>
<li class="li1">Get 7-9 hours of sleep every night.</li>
<li class="li1">Avoid smoking.</li>
<li class="li1">Keep body fat in control. The fatter you are, the greater the estrogen dominance in your body.</li>
</ul>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>Nutrition</strong></p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1">Don&rsquo;t restrict your food intake a lot for too long. Eat enough high quality food to get the required nutrition in your body.</li>
<li class="li1">Keep your fat intake around 25-30 % in your daily food intake. Whole eggs, red meat, coconut oil, nuts, dairy are all good for you in limited quantities.</li>
<li class="li1">Include cruciferous vegetables like broccoli, cauliflower, cabbage, etc in your diet.</li>
<li class="li1">Avoid processed foods and most simple sugars.</li>
<li class="li1">Limit your consumption of alcohol and soy products.</li>
</ul>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>Training</strong></p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1">Keep your training short and intense. Marathons are not great for your T levels.</li>
<li class="li1">Engage in intense weight training and lift heavy weights that do not allow more than 10 reps.</li>
<li class="li1">Stick to heavy compound movements like rows, pull ups, squats, clean and press, dead lifts, etc.</li>
<li class="li1">Avoid overtraining.</li>
<li class="li1">Focus on getting stronger.</li>
</ul>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Remember that our modern lifestyle makes it easier for us to be estrogen-dominated men with poor health. Never let things like andropause or hormone replacement therapy become part of your life. Take charge of your life and make things happen rather than blame others for your misfortune. After all it is what real men do!</p>
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								<title>Brain Food: Books That Make You Smarter </title>
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									<pubDate>2011-05-09 06:11:14</pubDate>
									<dc:creator>Mandovi Menon</dc:creator>
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<div><span id="internal-source-marker_0.1383718177676201">So you&rsquo;re a corporate stooge. No time to spare or idea about how to enhance your cultural sensibilities in any way unless it includes listening to the music played on the planes you&rsquo;re constantly boarding, or reading the Wconomist when you&rsquo;re in the bathroom (No, neither of these count). Or perhaps you&rsquo;re bumming around between jobs, taking it easy, traveling peacefully from one destination the next but you&rsquo;re beginning to feel your weaning intellectual capacity.</span><br /><br /><span>Surprisingly, the solution to both your problems is pretty much the same. Here is a list of 5 great, short and simple books that will only keep that IQ on an upward spiral, while simultaneously enhancing your literary senses. Not too heavy, not too light &ndash; just the way you need it.<br /><br /></span>
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<span><strong>TO KILL A MOCKING BIRD &ndash; HARPER LEE</strong></span><br /><br /><span>One of the world&rsquo;s most renowned &lsquo;classics,&rsquo; it is definitely a step apart from its contemporaries on many different levels. It&rsquo;s quite amazing how much impact Lee&rsquo;s short and simple book has on its readers especially since it touches upon an issue as large as racism in a time when it was most rampant. He manages to make the hardest of hearts melt at his simplistic literary account of a single white family, their black nanny and their struggle with racism. He manages to get his message across without selling short on the entertainment factor, which will make it impossible for any reader to put it down.</span><br /><br /><span><strong>WHY IT WORKS:</strong> </span><span>Given the length and easy-on-the-ears language of the book, not to mention the wonderful story this book will prove to be the perfect combination of light reading and still leave the wheels in your mind spinning long after midnight. Hopefully, with some positivity.<br /><br /><br /></span>
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<span><strong>A PICTURE OF DORIAN GRAY &ndash; OSCAR WILDE</strong></span><br /><br /><span>Arguably some of the best work ever from the ever-quotable Oscar Wilde, this novel is a guide for how to live a life of pure decadence. Packed with impeccable wit, clever one-liners and an excessive amount of egotistical vanity, this book seeps of Wilde&rsquo;s eccentric personality and amazing wit. At the very least, this book will show you the glory and the pitfalls of being the best looking chap around. Go ahead, live vicariously!</span><br /><br /><span><strong>WHY IT WORKS:</strong> </span><span>The story has an almost fairytale-like quality, with that slight magical element which will leave you wanting more with every page you turn. Once again its sweet and short simplicity makes it a quick and easy read. He presses upon an idea we have all had in our minds and shows us something moralistic (subtly of course) which our current world is quite devoid of so it&rsquo;s a good idea to read this and remember its message.<br /><br /><br /></span>
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<span><strong>INTO THE WILD &ndash; JOHN KRAKAUER</strong><br /></span><br /><span>Yes, it is the story behind the movie if that creates any more incentive to read this literary masterpiece, which emerged out of a 9000-word article about the same, in &ldquo;The Outside,&rdquo; in the 1990s. What with &lsquo;The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari&rsquo; and other such endeavours in literature it is no new fascination that the world has developed with people who are able to give up a materialistic way of life in search of more meaning and spirituality. This wonder lies deep within all of our bones and the experience of actually doing it has been captured perfectly by Krakauer, through Christopher Mccandles&rsquo; journals. The book depicts Mccandles&rsquo; 2-year wilderness trek, before which he had willfully given up everything and everyone in his life to live amidst nature.</span><br /><br /><span><strong>WHY IT WORKS:</strong> </span><span>Given that it is actually a true story, it makes the experience of reading it all the more gripping. Expect to be tremendously inspired to move your travels more towards nature after you&rsquo;re through with this moving account. And yes, it is as light and easy to ready as the rest.<br /><br /><br /></span>
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<span><strong>THE DRIFTERS &ndash; JAMES MICHENER</strong></span><br /><br /><span>Though awarded the Pulitzer prize for his other great literary works, in my opinion, Michener struck true story-telling gold with &lsquo;The Drifters.&rsquo; </span><span>The Novel follows 6 young characters from diverse backgrounds and various countries as their paths meet and they travel together through parts of Spain, Portugal, Morocco and Mozambique in an un-putdown able series of events that influence their lives forever. </span><br /><br /><span><strong>WHY IT WORKS:</strong> </span><span>Given that it is set in a time when most men experienced their utmost sense of freedom, they will definitely identify with the vagabond natures of these youth. And in case you aren&rsquo;t old enough to have ever lived in that generation, you will certainly find yourself wishing you had.&nbsp;</span><span>Though it is decently sized, it would be doubtful if you even noticed because you would be unlikely to put the book down until it&rsquo;s complete. <br /><br /><br /></span>
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<span><strong>THE DHARMA BUMS &ndash; JACK KEROUAC<br /></strong></span><br /><span>It would hardly be presumptuous to place a Kerouac novel on every kind of readers&rsquo; list there was. Somehow his novels seem to touch any and every kind of chord they need to. His literary explorations of the beat generation are wonderfully poignant, yet ruthlessly real, making everyone who reads them feel a part of the experience, every step of the way.&nbsp;</span><span>It is an idealistic vision of Kerouac - A life on the road without concern for wealth or even stability if you will or rather, an enjoyment of surroundings, whatever they may be. </span><br /><br /><span><strong>WHY IT WORKS:</strong> </span><span>This is an especially perfect book for reminding us to get away from technology, at least for a day, to appreciate nature and some of the simpler pleasures of life. The perfect travel companion indeed.</span><br /><br /><span>You may wonder how 5 such varying novels may serve the same purpose so fittingly but the truth is they all have one thing in common &ndash; Once you pick it up, there&rsquo;s no turning back. Each has that ethereal quality about them which makes it impossible to put them down until you finish. Happy reading. Or should I say learning!</span></div>
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									<pubDate>2011-05-08 12:15:19</pubDate>
									<dc:creator>Mandovi Menon</dc:creator>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whoever once (so famously) stated that 'behind every successful man there's a woman', was probably referring to his mother. It's more probable than the wife who married him, divorced him and left him dangerously emasculated and penniless at the very least. So on this great day, the only one of its kind, which dedicates itself solely and entirely to that wonderfully warm matriarchal figure that kept our noses warm and our bellys full, we bring to you 5 Famous mothers throughout history. Why? Because celebrities and mommas is the new peanut butter and jelly.</p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>ANGELINA JOLIE:</strong></p>
<p class="p1">She's the only real 'Hollywooder' on our list. And that's because she's got like 20 of 'em kids, not all her own either. This mommy sacrificed and worked terribly hard to adopt 3 children (to whom it made a tremendous difference in their quality of life, we might add). To top it all off she raises them with superstar husband Brad Pitt and has 3 of her own to add to never-ending lis--twins and a baby Shiloh. She pretty much forced us to coin the word 'rainbow family' and just to add a little depth she's got a seriously sexy tattoo on her arm which comprises of the co-ordinates of all her &nbsp;childrens' places of birth, respectively. The famous brood seems to have had Jolie do an about turn from a drug-fuelled, i'll-try-anything-once-mentality to a loving nurturing family woman. She was recently quoted saying, "I'm lucky to have so many children who can keep me very, very grounded." Just another feather to her many-feathered cap we say.</p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>JACQUELINE KENNEDY ONASSIS:</strong></p>
<p class="p1">Ah, the lone matriarchal figure behind the Kennedy political family. This list would be severely undernourished without her presence, not to mention her kids. She conducted life first as a political wife and then a political mother with immense grace and support through very trying times indeed. She was well known for her unwavering devotion towards her children and managed to leave a distinct mark on American politics and the White House just by being so.</p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>INDIRA GANDHI:</strong></p>
<p class="p1">This famous Indian Prime Minister was the picture of power, grace and strong lineage. Her being the daughter of Jawaharlal Nehru, India's first prime minister, set her up for a life of political involvement and intrigue. She was also rather infamous. What with her declarations of an emergency state, a ploy she used to sterilize half the male population of India in the 70s (her attempt to control the out-of-control population), she received a well-deserved reputation for being a real Iron Lady. Despite all these flaws, she was a strong and visible influence on her son Rajiv Gandhi's life, graciously accepted a foreigner (Sonia Gandhi) for a daughter-in-law all the while running a country with an iron fist. For all this and more, she finds an easy spot on this list.</p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>MOTHER TERESA:</strong></p>
<p class="p1">So scientifically speaking, she never gave birth to her own children. But that's only because she was a nun and it's not to say she didn't cherish and love millions of ailing and unwanted people in ways even a real mother might be unable to do. In fact, she funded the Missionaries of Charity and focussed her life on serving the dying and suffering. She loved unconditionally and truly, so much so that she became one of the only women to be beatified by Pope John Paul 2 in 2003.</p>
<p class="p1">A famous Mother Teresa Quote: "We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty." - only a real mother, could have spoken with such wisdom.</p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>MOTHER NATURE:</strong></p>
<p class="p1">Meet the Big momma. The mother of all mothers. The creator of all things. You get the drift. You may also argue that it's unfair to include something that's not really a person but you might as well concur right here because we can argue it back. Sure she can be a bit temperamental, what with her earthquakes and floods and massive destruction, but her soft side is softer and more beautiful than any other mother's we've ever witnessed. And that puts her right up there on our list.</p>
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									<pubDate>2011-05-08 07:30:50</pubDate>
									<dc:creator>Mandovi Menon</dc:creator>
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<p class="p1"><br />Prepare to have your jaw drop in wonder, your nose scrunch up in disgust, your stomach turn at the horror and your lips curve up in a smile for the truly miraculous. We bring to you the freakiest 'mother' records ever.</p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>MOST KIDS EVER:<br /></strong><span>Brace yourself. A Mrs. Vassilyev of Russia is said to have given birth to a whopping 69 children between 1725 and 1765. She is said to have managed this insane feat from just (not to trivialize it) 27 pregnancies. 16 sets of twins, 7 sets of triplets and 4 quadruplets. Whew! We wonder whether she even felt it the last 30 times! And why didn't anyone take a picture of this wonder womb?!</span></p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>YOUNGEST MOTHER EVER:<br /></strong><span>Sick, twisted behaviour and incest make regular appearances in this story. Lina Medina gave birth in 1939, when she was only 5 years old. A lump in her abdomen became a growing cause for concern and when examined, it was found that she was pregnant. Her father was immediately arrested for incest and Lina, it seems, had been getting her period since she was 3, which, in case you don't know, it freakishly early.&nbsp;</span></p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>OLDEST MOTHER EVER:<br /></strong><span>Rosanna Dalla Corte, of Italy, gave birth to a baby boy when she was 63 years old, in 1994. Bet that boy didn't know his grandparents thats for sure!</span></p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>HEAVIEST NEWBORN:<br /></strong><span>Italians must be eating right because Signora Carmelina Fedele gave birth to a 22 lb 8 oz boy in Italy, in 1955. Guess too much pasta and pizza will do that to your baby!</span></p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>TINIEST NEWBORN EVER:<br /></strong><span>Rumaisa Shaik, born in 2004, weighed only 8.6 ounces when born. Yes, she survived!</span></p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>ONLY MALE MOTHER EVER:<br /></strong><span>We've all heard this one. Man (Thomas Beatie) gets sex change operation but retains all his feminine parts because his wife can't have children. At 34 he actually managed to do the impossible and give birth. Wow!</span></p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>OLDEST 12 YEAR OLDS EVER:</strong>&nbsp;<br /><span>In May 2003, twins were born from 12-year old preserved embryos. &nbsp;It&rsquo;s reported to be the longest human cryopreservation. The boy and girl born weighed five pounds each.&nbsp;</span></p>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The majority of societies and structures within societies in the world have been patriarchal, with the father and 'man' getting immense adulation and importance while the female figure seems doomed to an overshadowed fate. That's what we assumed anyway. Turns out, there are many, many cultures, religions and countries out there who gave and continue to give immense importance to the 'mother' in their societies.</p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>NATIVE AMERICA:&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p class="p1">Women belonging to their tribes are honoured (and have always been) with the name, "Life of the Nation," signifying their gift of motherhood to the tribes. Or their gift of life.</p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>CHINA:</strong></p>
<p class="p1">You may be surprised to find them featured on this list, given a pretty deep lack of empowerment of their women at so many levels but their family names often begin with a sign that means 'mother.' It is their own way of paying tribute to their mother's lineage.</p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>CHRISTIANITY:<br /></strong><span>Eve is referred to as "The mother of all the Living" in the Bible.</span></p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>HINDUISM:<br /></strong><span>Hindus deeply worship Kali Ma, whom they refer to as the Great Mother. The credit her with many inventions, ranging from writing using alphabets to pictographs and beautiful sacred images. She is one of the most powerful deities in the whole religion and she is a mother, albeit a rather violent and terrifying one.</span></p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>ANCIENT GREECE:</strong><br /><span>Post celebrating mother's day in the spring they would wake up early to sweet honey-cakes, fine drinks and flowers at dawn. Perhaps the breakfast in bed tradition of mother's day arose here?</span></p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>BUDDHISM:</strong><br /><span>In Buddha's own words - " As a mother, even at the risk of her own life, loves and protects her child, so let &nbsp;a man cultivate love without measure to the whole world." He honoured birthing women everywhere with this simple statement.</span></p>
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<p class="p1">Well there you have it. A large majority of the worlds religions and cultures have been impacted by the mother. Now go honour yours!</p>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We all love Star Wars and that galaxy far far away we wish we were born in. But a few of us take this obsession with that distant universe a step too far. These are the people who go to every known Star Wars convention, group meeting, fight club and Yoda sighting on the most obscure corners of the globe. It is this spirited following that has led a few die-hard fans to create their own versions of Star Wars. Here are a few shining examples of some fan films:</p>
<p><strong>Troops by Kevin Rubio<br /><br /> 
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<br /><br />Hardware Wars by Ernie Fosselius<br /><br /> 
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<br /><br />Star Wars Gangsta Rap by Bent Frame<br /><br /> 
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the most interesting sub-plots that emerged after the rain on Bin Laden's Pakistan hideout was the fact that the extremely secretive Seal Team 6 had been involved. Here's more about these fascinating shadow warriors.</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>Who are they?</strong></p>
<p class="p1">Seal Team 6 is one of the United States' two secretive Tier One counter-terrorism and Special Mission Units (SMUs); the other such group is the Delta Force.</p>
<p class="p1">Here's what they look like:<br /><br /> 
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&nbsp;<br /><br /><strong>What's their training like?</strong></p>
<p>These operatives are first and foremost Navy Seals. "S.E.A.L" stands for SEa, Air, and Land, reflecting the fact that these baddasses can operate anywhere and anytime. Here's some of the rigorous training they go through:&nbsp;<br /><br /> 
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<p class="p1"><strong><br />What was the Bin Laden raid like?</strong></p>
<p><span>The mission to kill or capture Bin Laden was a highly dangerous one. The risks ranged from detection by Pakistani authorities and being mistaken for an Indian commando raid, incorrect intelligence, being taken hostage by Bin Laden's guards, suicide bombers, and several other intangibles. In the end, it all went like clockwork; the SEALs weren't even fazed when one of their helicopters was rendered inoperational. How did they respond? In true badass style, they blew it up. This was probably because the chopper was a top-secret stealth model that evaded detection by the Pakistani authorities because of its tiny radar signature and transponder spoofing technology. Here's more on the actual raid:</span>&nbsp;<br /><br /> 
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								<title>Nice Vice: Is Alcohol Healthy? </title>
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									<pubDate>2011-05-07 07:42:59</pubDate>
									<dc:creator>Mandovi Menon</dc:creator>
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<div><span>This one&rsquo;s for all you men who savour that glass of wine, a vodka on the rocks, a chilled glass of beer or a good ol&rsquo; whisky-soda. Basically I&rsquo;m referring to 99% of the male population above 18 years of age (that&rsquo;s when they might look old enough to get a drink) and then some.</span><br /><br /><span>With the entire western civilization harping on about spiritual awakening and the powers of thinking positive perhaps it&rsquo;s time to start spreading some of that good energy towards our drinks. Forget what the church, your wife and your doctor tell you; alcohol can actually be good for you in moderation (moderation being the key word). &nbsp;I mean if you think about it, most alcoholic beverages are nothing but distilled and fermented versions of grains and fruit we actually eat anyway and you don&rsquo;t see anyone complaining when you eat wheat or chew on grapes!</span><br /><br /><span>Here are the most common drink-vices and why they can actually be healthy!</span><br /><br /><strong><span>WICKED WHISKY TURNS WONDERFUL</span><br /></strong><br /><span>This delightful beverage is not just good for giving you that perfect heady rush and its smooth texture.</span><br /><br /><span><strong>HEALTH HAPPY:</strong> Each shot of whiskey contains a slew of antioxidants, according to Dr. Jim Swan, an expert in all things whisky (as spelled in Canada and Scotland), who also argues that these anti-cancer properties may be as powerful as those of dark chocolate and red wine, some of the other items with the same claims.</span><br /><br /><span><strong>DID YOU KNOW:</strong> French professor Arnald de Villanova (as early as the 14th century) claimed spirits could &ldquo;prolong life, clear away ill humors, revive the heart, and maintain youth.&rdquo; Looks like they knew their stuff even way back then!</span><br /><br /><span><strong>VENOMOUS VODKA TURNS VERSATILE:</strong></span><br /><br /><span>Here&rsquo;s to giving Russians world-wide a reason to rejoice.</span><br /><br /><span><strong>HEALTH HAPPY:</strong> Vodka can actually have disinfecting properties if you consume a peg or 2 after swimming in a polluted water body or eating something from the street that perhaps you shouldn&rsquo;t have. It&rsquo;s not a 100% guarantee but hey, anything to knock the guilt off.</span><span>Aside from this it is also known to reduce heart disease, while externally it can be applied to wounds as a disinfectant.</span><br /><span><strong><br />DID YOU KNOW:</strong> A popular book</span><span> </span><span>lists vodka recipes for curing alcoholism. All you have to do, as one of them says, is: &ldquo;Get five to seven green forest bugs and let them sit in a glass of vodka for several days. Give the infused vodka to the patient without telling him what it is.&rdquo; That concoction is supposed to turn the &ldquo;patient&rdquo; off from alcohol for good. Alcohol to cure alcohol? Ingenious.</span><br />
<p><strong><br />BITTER BEER TURNS BENEFICIAL:</strong></p>
<p><span>Ahoy all ye beer-guzzling yuppies across the globe, we know you&rsquo;re out there. You&rsquo;re pretty much every man in the world by now so this one is definitely special.<br /></span><strong><br />HEALTH HAPPY:</strong> Light drinking reduces risk of strokes and heart-disease by up to 20% according to research in America. It is fat-free, aids restful sleep and promotes relaxation. It helps with urination as well thus, reducing kidney stone incidence. Not to mention its rich vitamin B, B2 and B6 content.Need I say more? Why aren&rsquo;t we drinking more beer?<br /><strong><br />DID YOU KNOW:</strong> Beer brewing dates to almost 6000 BC. However, it was the Sumerians around 2000 BC who really loved the stuff. Their plaques and carvings often center on people or gods drinking from large jars of beer. A hymn to one of their most important goddesses, Ninkasi, is actually a very detailed explanation of how to make beer; this was helpful in a society that was almost entirely illiterate.</p>
<p><strong><br />WASTING WINE TURNS WINSOME:</strong></p>
<p><span>For all you aristocratic/European/wine-loving sorts: you always knew the benefits of this one. There&rsquo;s a reason it has played such a large role in the diets of the Italians and the French for centuries on end and it&rsquo;s not because the heady high is so wonderful. Well, not just that at any rate.<br /></span><strong><br />HEALTH HAPPY:</strong> A more recent study on wine by original &ldquo;French Paradox&rdquo; researcher Serge Renaud offers more evidence that moderate wine consumption is associated with a significant reduction in all-cause mortality, cardiovascular disease and cancer among men. Also rich in anti-oxidants and vitamins it&rsquo;s no wonder the Italians rarely suffer from kidney stones or cancer!&rsquo;<br /><strong><br />DID YOU KNOW:</strong> Although red wine can only be produced from red grapes, white wine can be produced from both white and red grapes.</p>
<p><span>P.S. - A glass of wine (about 4 oz.) contains about 85 calories so it&rsquo;s also the least fattening of the lot! </span></p>
<span>Well there you have it you budding alcoholics. Don&rsquo;t get too crazy but enjoy some guilt-free drinking. For your reference,&nbsp;</span><span><a id="internal-source-marker_0.4485336479265243" href="http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/health_advice/facts/alcohol_toomuch.htm"><span>this</span></a></span><span><span> </span></span><span>is how much you should be drinking, and </span><a href="http://www.alcoholscreening.org/Home.aspx"><span>here&rsquo;s</span></a><span> how to tell if you&rsquo;re drinking too much. &nbsp;Cheers!</span></div>
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								<title>Bare Basics: Strip Club Etiquette </title>
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									<pubDate>2011-05-06 08:27:26</pubDate>
									<dc:creator>Varun Bubber</dc:creator>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span>Part of being a guy is knowing how to behave. If you ever find yourself in a strip club, you may just be tempted to get wasted and behave like a simian, but there's actually rules to follow to maximise your experience and avoid getting tossed out. This humorous video tells you all you need to know:<br /><br /><br /> 
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									<pubDate>2011-05-05 15:43:40</pubDate>
									<dc:creator>Harsh Kalan</dc:creator>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Much like the iconic heavy metal band with the same name, this torture device conjures up images of a darker, less civilized world. This iron coffin with spikes attached to its lid supposedly made its first appearance in Hungary, but the jury's still out on that one. What's certain though, is the unbearable torture and pain this vile contraption inflicted on its occupants. Here's a look at this macabre machine:</p>
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									<pubDate>2011-05-05 15:22:37</pubDate>
									<dc:creator>Arnav Sarkar</dc:creator>
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<p>"Lose 50 pounds of flab in 10 weeks!"</p>
<p class="p3">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">"Lose 6 inches of your waist in 6 weeks!"</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">"Gain up to 10 pounds of lean muscle in 8 weeks!"</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">"Add 2 inches to your arms!"</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">No, I am not endorsing any supplement as you might suspect. I am just trying to give you an idea of the type of catch-lines that are used by people to sell their products and services. Some of the ads do deliver what they promise, whereas the rest just promise. The important thing to note is that in most of the health and fitness advertisements you will notice there is very little that is said in terms of strength gain. Sure, there are some advertisements that claim to improve strength, but most talk about some sort of change in terms of physical measurements.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Why I am I talking about strength? If you want a simple answer then let me just tell you that being strong could probably be the most important factor in helping you achieve most of your physical goals. It is also very vital for being healthy. A body that is weak in appearance is never attractive and neither is it healthy. Ever found an old man or woman with a weak and crouching body sexy? That&rsquo;s exactly my point! Of course, lets not forget the potential of getting injured. A weak body is far more likely to get injured than a strong body simply because a strong body can withstand physical punishment much better.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Before I proceed, I must remind you that strength is not something you can have simply by wishing for it. It is something that you work for and achieve. Even if you are very strong do not take it for granted that you will be so forever. Work hard to build or maintain your strength, it is not something to be avoided in your training program. I do however realize that most of you out there will not be motivated to train solely for strength. Unless strength training helps fulfill some other purpose you will not want to focus a lot on it. Well keeping that in mind let me discuss some of the cases where you MUST focus on getting stronger to achieve your goals.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>Fat loss - </strong>You must think, I&rsquo;m mad! Isn&rsquo;t it better to do circuits and high reps for fat loss? Training for strength while trying to get lean makes no sense, right? Well let me share with you a little history. A few decades ago, aerobics for fat loss was THE way to go according to most experts. Thus, everyone wanting to lose fat hopped onto cycles, treadmills, and steppers in hopes of losing fat. These equipments got them some results, but in most cases it did not provide major results. Most trainees lost about 5-10 pounds or so and then hit a plateau (I guess at this point some of you might be feeling that it is exactly what happened to you too).</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">In the last few years a lot of trainers have developed a very successful business with small studios where there are no or just 1-2 cardio equipments. Yet they mostly specialize in fat loss! So what do they use? They use strength training in various forms like traditional weights, body weight, kettlebells. etc. Does that sound like a new fitness studio that's just opened in your neighbourhood? Well it just might be, cause such training centres often deliver great results for fat loss clients. To help you understand why let me tell you that strength training is vital in raising your total metabolism, including resting metabolism. Yes you actually burn more calories even when you are resting after strength training, this helps you get much leaner than doing only aerobics.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Now you might have been doing what you perceive as strength training using 2 kilo dumbbells and just the empty bar till now; and you must be failing to get any results. This is because the weight that you are using is too insignificant for your body to feel the need for losing fat. Its only when you progressively lift heavier weights that you will start to see the fat melt. Now, before you start freaking out let me assure you that I am not talking about lifting weights like an Olympic weight lifter. I am simply referring to lifting the heaviest weights possible. Circuits and super sets are great for fat loss, but only when there is a significant weight involved. Thus, you must build strength to ensure that you can lift respectable weights during your circuits. Simply lifting 1-2 kilo dumbbells will not help.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>Mass gain - </strong>I agree that most people trying to gain mass do try to increase their strength. However, there are some that are so focused on the "pump", they take each muscle group to absolute failure, and hit it from all possible angles. Such people ignore trying to get stronger on basic lifts. Look at the bench press, squat, and dead lift numbers of all great big bodybuilders and you will notice that they all lift real heavy weights to build their bodies. Obviously there is no way that you will lift weights near their capacity, unless you are strong. Thus even if pure size is your goal, strength development must not be ignored.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>Athletes -</strong> Athletes need to fast, flexible and agile. Muscular endurance is more important than sheer muscular strength. I am sure that you must have heard athletic coaches say this often. My question to you is this, if you feel that muscular endurance is the most vital factor then what are you trying to endure - low levels of strength? I hope not! Without adequate strength, muscular endurance is worthless. Imagine if you could kick a football 500 times a day, but could not kick it far then will all that endurance help? Thus, even if you are an athlete you must ensure that you have adequate levels of strength before trying to think of muscular/strength endurance.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>General fitness -</strong> Some of you might not require any fat loss/muscle gain and certainly aren&rsquo;t athletes. So, you want to train for general fitness and want to ensure that you never have any chronic disease like diabetes, hypertension, etc. A lot of popular media channels might have told you how walking 3-6 times a week for 30 minutes is enough for general fitness levels. If you have been brainwashed into believing so, let me awake you to the reality and tell you that simply walking is NOT enough to be the healthiest that you can be. Strength training is equally, if not more, important to prevent chronic diseases. What is the image that you have of old age in your mind? I am sure that it must be someone weak who needs a walking stick and crouches. Maybe even needs others to help them get up from bed. What do you think is lacking in this picture. Obviously physical strength! One of the best ways to fight old age is strength training.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">What about chronic diseases? Strength training helps in fighting them too. For example, regular weight training has shown to help the body better absorb glucose, which means it is required for diabetics. Strength training is the best way to exercise to prevent Osteoporosis. Even for hypertension strength training has been found to be beneficial. Thus, it is obvious that for those seeking general levels of fitness, strength training is essential.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">So, whatever physical goals you may have ensure that you focus on strength development too. If you fail to do so, you will never achieve your goals fully.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Always remember that fitness is fun... and its for everyone!</p>
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									<pubDate>2011-05-05 14:46:47</pubDate>
									<dc:creator>Arnav Sarkar</dc:creator>
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<p>The biggest loser is probably the most popular fitness-based program in the history of television. In case you are not aware, let me give you a brief idea about the show. It is a reality game show with obese contestants. Every week one contestant is eliminated and it goes on in this manner, till one winner remains. As you must have guessed by now that elimination depends, though not fully but greatly, on weight loss.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Although it did not make it big in India, it sure is a hit in many other countries and the trainers of the US edition are celebrities. However, if you were to ever ask other trainers about their personal opinion of Jillian Michaels and Bob Harper then be ready for some big-time criticism. Beginning with Jillian's rude and cold behavior towards the contestants to criticizing Bob for various reasons, you will hear a lot of negative stuff. I mean, does Jillian know how to swing a kettlebell, maybe, maybe not. But come on guys, how about giving a little credit where its due? I mean, how many gyms were making 400 pounders do squats, inverted rows, push ups on the floor and other intense exercises?&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p3">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">Most gyms have their obese client sit on the recumbent bike for 45 minutes followed by some gentle machine resistance training like leg extensions, seated bench press, etc. So yes, the biggest loser is not all that bad! In fact, I know this from experience that years ago most trainers - yes I mean trainers who are supposed to help their clients get fitter - would never truly believe that it was possible for their obese clients to live their dream of running something like 5 Km someday. They might have said "sure it can happen someday", but in their minds they were like, "yeah right as if you got a chance to make that happen, you big fat slob"!</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">If you were to ask me about the trainers in the show, then to be honest I will have to say that I have a very mixed opinion of them. Some of their negative features like being rude to contestants is really disturbing for me to watch. However, I do realize that it is a commercial TV show and that behavior obviously helps in gaining viewership. Plus, the ultra fast rate of fat loss achieved during the show is almost impossible to achieve in real life situations due to many reasons like lack of time, distractions, etc. Also some of their methods are too dangerous. For example, taking a 400 pound guy and making him do all-out sprints on day 1 without building up a conditioning base is frankly speaking crazy! &nbsp;</p>
<p class="p3">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p3">There are however some important lessons that one can learn from the Biggest Loser that can be used to lose fat. Of course just don&rsquo;t expect to lose 100 pounds in 8 weeks. What you learn from the show might help you go on your own personal biggest loser experience, even if you are not as obese as the contestants.</p>
<p class="p2">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p2"><strong>1) Team work is important -</strong> Did you notice how the contestants begin the show in teams? Did you notice how the team members motivate and push each other to be more dedicated or push harder? Now do you think that it would have been the same if they were to start the contest alone? Surely not! Research has shown that whenever someone teams up with a friend, partner or any one else they are more successful. The accountability factor and the want to not let the other person down motivates one to be really dedicated. So, try to start your fat loss journey with someone like yourself, who is also very keen to lose fat.</p>
<p class="p3">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1">If you do not know of any such person then even asking your friends and family members to be your cheering squad can be great. The constant reminders, compliments from your friends and family will go a long way to keep you on track for sure.</p>
<p class="p3">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>2) Take your grocery shopping seriously -</strong> I have never been to the Biggest Loser house, but my guess is that you will probably go crazy if you were to search for items like sweets, beer, fried chips, etc. I am sure that the fridge in the biggest loser home only contains healthy and nutritious foods. This is something that you must do in your home too. If your fridge only gives you the option of taking out things like lean meats, vegetables, and your kitchen is full of healthy spices, oils, etc then you will find it hard to stay fat!</p>
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<p class="p1">On the other hand, if chips and sweets are only an arm's length away for you and your TV room has a six pack of beer in it, then it will be the easiest thing for you to consume. So, get rid of all the unhealthy food items in your house and replace them with the healthy ones. Every time you go shopping for food items, look to put only healthy eating options in your cart.</p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>3) Have a well-rounded training program - </strong>Check out the training portion of any biggest loser episode, and you will find that the contestants warm up, lift, run, stretch, etc. In short they have a complete approach to fitness. On the other hand, a regular fat loss aspirant will probably only think of cardio and not really bother about the other important factors of overall fitness.</p>
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<p class="p1">If you want the best results, then follow a well-rounded strength and fitness program which takes care of your overall health.</p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>4) Make your workouts intense -</strong> When the contestants are in the gym they mean business! The gym for them is a place for work and not the place and time to gossip or catch up on the latest episode of their favorite TV show. The contestants are sweating, huffing, grunting and swearing while they work out. That is what an intense workout feels like. Compare that to the fat guy in your gym who probably pedals away on the exercise bike while he is watching TV or talking all the time on the mobile (believe me I have seen such folks).</p>
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<p class="p1">From now on approach your workouts like they are a very important business meeting. Your focus should be fully into the exercise that you are doing. Also keep in mind to choose intense resistance exercises rather than only train your abs or some isolation exercise for your legs. For cardio look to push up your breathing rate and keep it up, instead of taking it slow and easy. I will however remind you that before beginning any exercise, please do consult your doctor and get a clearance so that you know your actual limits.</p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>5) Set rewards for achieving goals -</strong> Other than the ultimate goal of losing fat and changing their life, the contestants also have an eye on the prize money that awaits them. Besides the prize money, there is also a smaller prize for the team that wins the weekly challenges. The concept of rewarding yourself for achieving both your long and short term goals will be a great way to keep you on track. Sure, you might not be able to reward yourself with big prizes like the contestants get, you can however use the money that you save from eating excess food to get a new better fitting jeans, or something else that you fancy. You should ensure that your rewards are not food items. Think in terms of clothes, watches, perfumes, jewelery, shoes, etc.</p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>6) Move more often -</strong> The contestants on an average spend about 4-6 hours a day exercising. Now before you decide to do the same let me stop and warn you against doing so. It maybe OK for them since their only job while on the show is to eat, rest, and train for a lot of money that is at stake. You, on the other hand live in the real world and will not be able to keep up with such a schedule.</p>
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<p class="p1">There is however the important lesson to be learned, i.e to be more active. Let&rsquo;s be honest, one of the reasons why people get fat is because they are inactive. So that is a habit that needs to change. So, even though you may hit the gym only 3-4 times a week, you should still look to be active throughout the day, everyday. The simple steps like taking the stairs, walking more and relying less on automobiles are very useful when trying to get a little extra activity.</p>
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<p class="p1"><strong>7) Yes, you can do it too -</strong> This should probably have been the first big lesson to learn from the show. No matter how huge you are, you can always change that and become healthier. Sure, you might not drop 20 pounds every week, or might not get down to your "perfect" weight, but you can definitely lose fat and get a grip on your life.</p>
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<p class="p1">I have on occasions come across people who have been trying to lose those unwanted pounds for years but have been failing, and after sometime they actually give up all hope. The show has given a ray of hope to people who have restarted their journey; and they have done well too. So if you too have been unsuccessful for years, do not give up hope. Look to work with a well-qualified professional and make things happen. It might take a little longer for you, but it will surely happen.</p>
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